Wednesday, June 1, 2016
Seminars
Land of Gold
Sunday, March 27, 2016
Maid to Order
Sunday, March 13, 2011
A tall storey
I wish it were possible to choose our neighbours! we don't have one like minded owner who feels for the building like we do.
No one is bothered about cleanliness outside of the building. clothes are dried out in the front yard of the ground floor, parking in unauthorised spaces, not attending meetings etc are part of our travails. A tattered mat is a reminder that no one cares, and the only ones who care have no voice.
Being owners of the "once house" the mantle of president, secretary, treasurer have landed squarely own our shouldersweighed down with solving problems of plumbing, basement flooding, dealing with the maintenance staff etc for the past 11 years, save for a brief period of help. The fact that we are getting older and totally disinerested in running the association where there is no co-operation or goodwill, nor appreciation does not matter. The rest of the residents claim they are too busy and the couple of retired parents who live there are labelled too infirm though they are a lot younger than us.
The residents look the other way when we tell them the building needs a fresh coat of paint and also when we tell them that the money contributed cannot meet the fixed expenditure... Some of them refuse to pay for the lift, saying they don't use it, that we the third floor people are the ones who use it most! One irate gentleman brought a whole lot of dirt and threw it before our front door marking his displeasure at our washing the balcony and dared allowed a little water to drip on to their garden below!
We have been given advice by many of our well meaning friends. "Just go away for 6 months, let the building go to dogs, yell at the non co operating people etc etc". Though we dont believe in running away from our problems, maybe one day we will and I fervently pray that the place we choose will be nothing short of paradise!
So before you fall into the temptation of "developing" your property, check with people like us before you are sunk into a quicksand of heartlessness!
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Travails of a Tawa
TRAVAILS OF A TAWA
Sabita Radhakrishna
With the era of splurging come into age, even people who are not compulsive shoppers feel the need to spend when they roam the malls and shopping centres. I am not one of those who will "shop till I drop" not even in
Our first stop was the IKEA shop. I love to visit this place irrespective of my resolve. Originally in Deira City Centre, it closed in 2005 to a re-opening of the store four times bigger and housed at the
The gleaming steel and chrome kitchens with different combinations, the island kitchens with their impeccable lighting, and wall strung stands to accommodate those snazzy little jars which can hold tempering ingredients or masala powders….lure you…. I took deep sighs and wished I was 20 years younger with my zest for immaculate housekeeping combined with aesthetics. Of course 20 years ago there was the question of affordability.
My legs having faced grevious injury would not allow me to keep pace with my enthusiasm. I wearily sink into an upholstered chair in the furniture section. "Look but don't touch" is a principle you can forget when you come to IKEA. "Lie down on our beds. Try out our chairs. Compare prices and measurements. Make yourself at home. After all, your home could be just like this."
"Comfortable isn't it ma'am?" asks the helpful salesgirl. "Before you decide I would advise you to try the one here, it's really top class." I nod my head and smile, put on my best grimace just in case she hustles me out of the section for having made a visilble dent in the upholstery. Mother and I gratefully follow the arrows to the exit and all the while, she tells me that the tawa she set her sights on would have been so useful, and such heavy cast iron pieces are not easily available in
I hold my mother and waddle towards the lift. We reach the tawa section after a search, and yes there it is beckoning. My mother eagerly claims it and I notice her arm sags. I take it from her and realize it weighs a ton. Actually it is not a tawa at all , it is a glorified frying pan, with a handle equally heavy. In no mood to change my mind I lug it sheepishly to the entrance while husband waits. Gallantly he takes the thing from me and says "Ouch!" Once home, I hide it under my bed.
As luck would have it, I hear friend Asha is leaving for Chenni for just 10 days. Her husband has gone before her and she is carrying just a sling bag. I ask Asha if she would take the tawa. She agrees most spontaneously. We are invited for tea at her cousin's place and she tells me to bring it over. We enjoy the tea, but one look at her face tells me it is bad news. " I will take the thing home and weigh it,aunty, but if I am overweight or rather if my luggage is, I will have to leave it here for someone else to bring. You see I am also carrying Sanju's golf paraphernalia, so I am very sorry. But there is a chance I might take it. Asha is one of those sweet young things who would do anything for an aunt even if it means inconvenience.
My son has been invited for dinner by two of his American colleagues and of course he has been told he has to bring his visiting family to meet them. Asha drops us off at the classy hotel, where you cannot lug a heavy tawa or carry it in a plastic bag. I leave the thing in Asha's car and feebly attempt a "please try to take it to Chennai dear," Asha flashes her brilliant smile before she leaves.
Two days later we telephone and find out Asha has left, minus the tawa. My daughter- in-law Anu calls Sanju (who has returned alone) rather desperately, requesting him to bring the tawa home before we catch the flight. Sanju assures us that he will, and he forgets the whole thing. Anu makes one last desperate bid to collect the tawa.. After a series of calls she learns that the thing has been passed on to
As the plane takes off from
Back home I recount the tawa tale to Asha's aunt Rajam. She lets out a scream. "You mean you trust these children with this sort of thing? I had taken some podis to Asha's place to be handed over to my daughter. It didn't reach my daughter, but a visiting maid from Asha's mom-in-law thought it was for them, and whisked the bottles away and was praised for suddenly making excellent sambars and vatha kozhambus…I assure you it will be plain luck if the tawa reaches you…..."
Two months later our son is arrives in Chennai. He reaches in the early hours of the morning but is bright as a button. We are each bleary eyed but try to match his smiles. "Ma I have something for you!" And even in my state of half sleep I know what it is.
The tawa or frying pan is lying in the pantry. My maid used it to give my knees oil formentations by heating cloth pads dipped in ayurvedic oil.. She believed that this way it will get seasoned (the tawa not my legs) I believe her. It is six months now and it still lies in all its glory in the pantry. "Too heavy to wash," remarks my maid.
I might just try frying cutlets tomorrow, and make Ma happy that she persuaded me to buy it…..